Everything that happens to us happens on purpose. Sometimes, one thing leads to another. Instead of locking yourself up in your cage of fears and crying over past heartaches, embarrassment and failures, treat them as your teachers and they will become your tools in both self improvement and success.
*Stop thinking and feeling as if you’re a failure, because you’re not. How can others accept you if you can not except you AND if you can not..... DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
*When you see the, "beautiful ones" on TV, think more on self improvement, not self pitying. Self acceptance is not just about having nice slender legs, or great abs. Concentrate on inner beauty. Inner beauty is lasting. After the body has started to fatten your mind will be your safe zone.
*When people feel so down and low about themselves, help them move up. Don’t go down with them. They’ll pull you down further and both of you will end up feeling inferior.
*The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Don’t feel stupid and doomed forever just because you failed on a science quiz. There’s always a next time. Make room for self improvement.
* Recently someone very close to me admitted to their fear of rejection and failure. Because of their fear they wanted to stay in the background. Failure is the only thing that will lead to success. Learning how to ride a bike comes from many falls but, once you learn how you never forget.
* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement doesn’t turn you into someone else. It results in an improved and better YOU.
* Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self improvement doesn’t turn you into someone else. It results in an improved and better YOU.
*Little things are BIG to other people. Sometimes, we don’t realize that the little things that we do impact others. Saying “hi” or “hello” or greeting someone with“good day” or telling Mr. Smith something like “I like your tie!” are simple things: But, they mean so much to other people. When we’re being appreciative about beautiful things around us and other people, we also become beautiful to them.
Where Do We Start?
Changes do not happen over one night but the valuable life changes that we gain open our doors for self improvement and increase our chances to head down the road of success.
May your life grow in its' success,
James Smart
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